Lent is a season of returning.
Returning to prayer. Returning to the sacraments. Returning to God when life has been distracting, overwhelming, or spiritually dry.
And if you’ve ever felt like your faith has been inconsistent—or like you’re “too far gone” to start again—Fernanda’s story is proof that God never stops calling.
As she puts it simply:
“It’s never too late to deepen your faith.”
Whether you’re a student preparing for college, currently in college, or someone trying to rebuild your relationship with God, Lent is the perfect time to begin again.
Growing Up Catholic… But Not Always Connected
Fernanda’s faith journey started in a way many students can relate to. Her family identified as Catholic, but regular Mass attendance wasn’t always possible.
“Growing up, my family identified as Catholic but didn’t regularly attend Mass, mainly because Spanish Masses were scarce.”
Still, Catholic identity was present in her home through culture and tradition.
“My siblings and I did receive our sacraments at the usual times. We participated in basic Catholic Mexican traditions.”
But her story shows that faith isn’t always a straight line.
When Your Faith Story Feels Complicated
Fernanda’s childhood included a season where her faith life looked different from what most people might expect.
“From kindergarten to 5th grade, I was basically raised Baptist.”
Her parents wanted their children to hear the Word of God, even if they weren’t practicing Catholics regularly.
“My parents, though not practicing, allowed us to attend a Baptist church, believing it was beneficial to hear the word of God, as long as we remembered our Catholic roots.”
Many young adults grow up with a mix of influences—different churches, inconsistent attendance, or seasons of disconnection. But Fernanda’s story reminds us that God can still work powerfully through every chapter.
A Longing for the Eucharist That Didn’t Go Away
Fernanda began CCD in third grade, preparing for key sacraments.
“I first attended CCD in 3rd grade to prepare for Reconciliation and Communion.”
Afterward, she returned to the Baptist church—but something inside her remained deeply Catholic.
“After receiving those sacraments, I returned to the Baptist church but longed for Mass and the Eucharist.”
That longing is something many Catholic students recognize—especially during Lent. Even if they haven’t been to Mass in a while, they still feel pulled back.
Because the Eucharist isn’t just tradition.
It’s Jesus.
Drifting Away Happens, But It Doesn’t Have to Be Permanent
Like many students, Fernanda went through a period when she stopped attending church entirely.
“From 6th to 8th grade, I stopped attending church altogether.”
That season of distance is more common than people admit. Middle school and high school years can be chaotic. Faith often gets pushed aside by busy schedules, social pressure, or simply not knowing where you belong.
But Fernanda’s story doesn’t end there.
And neither does yours.
Lent Is the Perfect Time to Start Again
In tenth grade, Fernanda decided to return.
“In 10th grade, I rejoined CCD to receive Confirmation and grow in my Catholic faith.”
That’s what Lent is all about: choosing to come back.
Not because you “have it all together,” but because you’re ready to let God lead you forward again.
Fernanda continued to show up, even when no one else did.
“After Confirmation, I was the only student in my grade who continued with CCD…”
That kind of faithfulness matters—especially when you feel alone in your faith.
The Moment That Changed Everything: Adoration
Fernanda’s turning point came when she attended her Diocese Youth Convention.
“That year I attended my Diocese Youth Convention (DYC).”
And it was there that she encountered something life-changing:
“At DYC, I experienced Adoration for the first time and felt the Lord touch my heart.”
That’s what makes Adoration so powerful. It’s quiet. It’s simple. But it’s real.
And for many students, it’s the moment faith stops being something they grew up around—and becomes something personal.
Faith That Turns Into Leadership
Fernanda didn’t just return to the Church. She began to grow and lead.
“I started to dive more into the Catholic faith.”
She stayed consistent:
“As a junior, I attended CCD weekly and went to NCYC in Indianapolis.”
And she stepped into serving others:
“Last year, as a senior, I became a CCD teacher and joined a leadership team for my Diocese.”
One of the most striking parts of her story is how she stayed involved, even when it wasn’t popular.
“I was the only one from the Class of 2025 to remain active in my church.”
That kind of commitment is rare. And it’s exactly what the Church needs more of.
Bringing Faith Into College Life
College is often where Catholic students decide whether their faith becomes their own—or fades into the background.
Fernanda is choosing to take her faith with her.
“Now, as a college freshman, I teach a Spanish class for kids preparing for Communion and Reconciliation…”
And she’s already looking for community:
“...and plan to get involved with the Newman Center at my university.”
That matters because students thrive spiritually when they have a community that helps them stay connected to the sacraments, friendships, and discipleship.
And Lent is the perfect season to find that community.
How to Grow Closer to God During Lent (Even If You’re Starting Over)
Fernanda’s story reminds us that you don’t have to be perfect to come back—you just have to start.
Here are a few simple steps anyone can take during Lent:
- Go to Mass (even if it’s been a while)
- Visit Adoration and spend time with Jesus
- Go to Confession and experience a true, fresh start (here's a good examination of conscience guide!)
- Find a Catholic community that helps you stay consistent (get connected to one with this easy form)
The strongest faith isn’t built in one moment—it’s built through small steps taken again and again.
“You Will Eventually Find Your Way Home”
Fernanda shared her story for one reason:
“I hope my story inspires Catholics or those interested in Catholicism who may be struggling with their faith.”
And her final words are a message that feels especially powerful during Lent:
“You will eventually find your way home.”
Lent is your invitation to come home.
To prayer. To the Eucharist. To the Church. To Jesus.
Because no matter what your past has looked like…
“It’s never too late to deepen your faith.”
Help More Students Find Their Way Home
Fernanda’s story is proof of what can happen when a student has access to a Catholic community, formation, and encouragement.
At Newman Connection, our mission is to help young adults stay connected to the Catholic faith—especially during the critical transition from high school to college.
This Lent, you can be part of someone else’s story.
When you donate to Newman Connection, you help more students find:
- a Newman Center near their campus
- a faith community where they are known and supported
- access to the sacraments and spiritual mentorship
- friendships that strengthen their faith for life
If Fernanda’s story inspired you, consider making a gift today. Your generosity helps more students find their way home.
Donate to Newman Connection and support Catholic students this Lent.
